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Messages That Matter, Whenever They Matter

Your words. Your love. Timed perfectly for life's biggest moments.

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Welcome to When I Was Here

A private space where you can write meaningful messages for the people you love - and deliver them exactly when they'll matter most.

Write a letter to your child for their wedding day. Send words of encouragement to your future self. Or preserve memories to be share if you're no longer here.

This is not a social network.Your messages are private - always!Seen only by you and the people they're meant for.

How It Works

  1. Write a Message

    Text, voice, or video - whatever feels right.

  2. Choose the Moment

    Schedule by exact date or future milestone.

  3. We Deliver It

    Your message arrives when it matters most - whether you're there to say it or not.

Inspirational Ideas

Graduation message

A Letter to Your Child's Graduation

Write a heartfelt message to be delivered on your child's graduation day. Share your pride, wisdom, and hopes for their future as they embark on their next chapter.

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Anniversary message

An Anniversary Message Written Years Before

Capture your love and appreciation today to be delivered on a future anniversary. Share your hopes for your relationship and the memories you hope to create together.

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Future self message

Words of Your Future Self - From Who You Are Today

Write a letter to your future self. Share your current dreams, goals, and aspirations. Create a time capsule of your thoughts and hopes for the person you'll become.

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Grandchild message

A Message for the Day Your First Grandchild is Born

Write a special message to be delivered on the day your first grandchild arrives. Share your hopes, dreams, and the love that will surround them from day one.

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Discover stories, tips, and inspiration for creating meaningful messages that last a lifetime.

Letters to My Future Self

Discover the power of writing letters to your future self. Read stories of how these time capsules of hope and wisdom can guide and inspire the person you're becoming.

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